Throughout your training, sometimes you will have to moderate how you train. Not everyone that walks into a martial arts gym wants to have knock down drag out battles all the time. Most people have jobs, school, or other responsibilities where they want to come learn and roll, but they don’t want to be unnecessarily roughed up. That’s where you have to pay attention to who it is you are training with, and strive to finish with proper technique instead of what’s easy. Some of your training partners will want to have the hard rolls where the things you do border on disqualification, but it’s better to err on the side of caution unless you’ve already agreed to hard rolls. Overall take care of your training partners otherwise you won’t have any left.